How many times a day do I hear that! Books are a big part of our family, not just books but words in general...
"what does that say?"
"how do you spell...."
"which letter is that?"
"hey, that's the same sound as..."
I don't claim to be an expert, just a mum with a passion for reading and wanting to pass that love on to my girls. It's funny because I didn't really think about it as I was doing it, it just happened and now I have three girls who can't keep their noses out of books and none of them can actually "read" in the conventional way....yet...
Things I've learnt along the way.
Make books a part of everyday. Have them around, in every room of the house, let your children see you reading. Let them read everything...cookbooks, newspapers, cereal boxes, street signs, shopping lists etc. Reading begins with understanding that this letter means this and makes this sound, talk together about words and sounds. Let them touch books, feel books, eat books. If there are precious books that you're fond of pop them up out of reach for the time being and have the shelves filled with ones you don't mind them give a good once over.
Scour the local op-shops for classics and then it doesn't matter if the book becomes well loved if you've only paid 50c for it!
Become a regular at your local library. Ours has a wonderful system where I can order in and reserve books for us over the net anytime of the day and they then call me when they've arrived. Bliss!
I must admitt though I'm a bit of a book snob when it comes to the quality of the story.
Look for stories that have meaning, it doesn't have to be serious life changing meanings but books where kids can predict what might happen next. Look for characters that they can identify with and share adventures with and relish in the gloriously happy endings together which is why we want to read books after all!
Look for rhythm and rhyme...listen for the way it sounds when you read it out loud. There are books that were just made to be read aloud,
"Where the Wild Things Are" by Maurice Sendak should have instructions on the cover..."to be read with a roaring, loud 'I'm the king of the castle' voice."
Books are there to help us make sense of the world, they allow children to express their inner feelings and voice their fears as they identify with what the character is experiencing. Sometimes the change that takes place in a family when a new sibling arrives can be explored before the baby comes with such books as
"Brand New Baby" by Bob Graham or for the younger child
"Za Za's Baby Brother" by Lucy Cousins.
Read them together and then then talk about it.....sometimes we spend just as much time talking about what we've read as reading it.
Reading should always be fun and never a chore. It can become something to look forward to at the end of the day, a special ritual shared, a time to reconnect. Eliminate distractions and dive into the story together and become lost in the magic.
I could rave for days about the importance of reading....Mem Fox has put it so plainly
“The first day of school is almost too late for a child to begin to learn to read. If every parent understood the huge educational and intense happiness brought about by reading aloud to their children, and if every parent - and every adult caring for a child - read aloud a minimum of three stories a day to the children in their lives, we could probably wipe out illiteracy within one generation" (Reading Magic by Mem Fox)
If reading doesn't come naturally for you and reading to children especially, is a new and daunting thing I can highly recommend "Reading Magic" as a starting place. Paul Jennings also wrote
"The Reading Bug And How To Help Your Child Catch It" Another fantastic resource all about the importance of books in a childs life.
Here's just small list of some of the books we've enjoyed over the years, ones that have made us laugh and cry and ones that I hope my girls will want to share with their children just as my parents shared them with me.
Books that made us smile....
Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good Very Bad Day - Judith Viorst
A Fish out Of Water - Helen Palmer
Caps For Sale - Esphyr Slobodkina
Harry and the Dirty Dog - Gene Zion
Books full of rhythmn and musical word magic
Wynken, Blynken and Nod - A poem by Eugene Field
Who Sank the Boat - Pamella Allen
Possum Magic - Mem Fox
Books that sent us on adventures
The Enchanted Wood series - Enid Blyton
We're Going On A Bear Hunt - Michael Rosen
Books that made us cuddle closer
Humphreys Corner - Sally Hunter
Henry and Amy - Stephen Michael King
Cowboy and His Friend - Joan Walsh Anglund
What are some of your special stories.......